Why hate the haters?

Vengeance is the purest emotion they say .... i too believed in it for far too long  to realize the fact that its all a paradoxical cycle which consumed me and left me where i started....

you hurt me as i did something knowingly or unknowingly to hurt you , i hurt you back and feel happy and it keeps on going till we both either die or find a common good and give up but what i realized walking down this road is i wasted far too much time in inflicting the pain to people who gave me pain , i could have consumed that time in doing things that would do good to me and just me..

We humans the self proclaimed Superior species on this planet have this natural default tendency to have a compulsion thrive to avenge ourselves. we have a gift of life , and so does 6 billion + other people around us. now if some one does something to push you down and rise up is it really wrong ?? instead of acting like crabs and pulling down each other cant we just focus on rising up and higher on our own.

I know its hard for us to make others understand this but cant we just realize and adapt this ourselves ? to be honest we are a limitless source of energy and we can do wonders with a WILL , but unfortunately we never push ourselves to the extreme unless and until we are opposed or pushed back , would a runner in Olympic run to this optimum speed if he's running alone ? we perform better when some one is competing , we go that  extra mile , we sweat a bit more , we do things that we wouldn't have thought of doing to win. so ultimately we went all guns blazing just cause we had someone pointing guns at us. 

Instead of hating back my haters i chose to thank them and rather use them, hahah to be honest i consider haters to be the most important reason behind whatever i achieve, every time someone stood up and said i wont let you do this/achieve this/ win this i gave a smile and said thanks now i will dedicate my immediate future in proving you wrong, now i agree to the fact that i did that to prove that hater wrong but i know that helped me achieve what i wanted cause the zest to prove him wrong fueled my thirst to win helped me to let go the weakness and endure more ......

What are we without our haters? we'r just average ....we would move beyond the normal unless we are being pushed down..remember Christoper Nolan's DARK KNIGHT ? do you think Batman would have been The Batman we love and respect if he didn't have enemies to fight? hahah not diverting the topic but just staging the facts that One simply does not attain heights without a Great Opponent. 

So cheers to the haters we must say , thank them , tease them , do not try and destroy them on the contrary make them hate you more cause the more they hate the more you'll work to save your back .hahahah i do not mean by this that be an ass and walk around pissing off people all i am saying is  keep working and if someone is jealous and hates you do not hate him back rather take up the fight to him and go beyond your limits and achieve what i feel is Respect from haters.....

YOU TRULY ARE NOTHING UNTIL THE PEOPLE WHO HATE YOU, RESPECT YOU